Famous writer,
Mark Twain, once said, “It is rare to find an
objective and independent viewpoint on style, literature, politics, or any
other matter. Many people's opinions are formed through their associations with
others. It is our nature to conform; conformity is a force that few can
successfully resist. We give in to the human instinct to go along with the
crowd and to have its approval.”
I think people in modern society prefer to
accept the opinions of others rather than try to develop their own ideas.
People sometimes do not believe in themselves because they are afraid of making
mistakes; they don’t want others judging them; they always want to make the
right decisions; and they want everything in their lives goes well. So, listening
to others’ opinions is a good option for people who are not confident.
Recently, I have read a book named Stargirl, which was written by Jerry
Spinelli. In the book, the protagonist, Stargirl, a mysterious
girl, acts totally different from the rest of the students at Mica High. She
does not conform others; she does not imitate the famous students at school;
and she makes her own decision all the time.
In contrast, Leo, the narrator of the book,
cannot develop his own ideas. He is also an introverted boy, who is in love
with Stargirl. He depends on others all the time. He is unable to make a big
decision when he has to make a choice. He is so afraid of being isolated from
the others. So, he always listens to others’ opinions when he is making a
decision.
In modern society, people are tired of making
mistakes because they don’t want others judging them. They gain so many
pressures through their works and lives. So, when someone gives them an authority
or persuasive idea, they will be really happy to accept it.
